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10 paula
paulajcangemi@yahoo.com
Location: allover
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| as sad as my story is it is comforting to read that the physical pain i feel of being without my children, the court system being "pro father", and the ex husband, scum bag that he is , always coming out on top and two beautiful babes, myself and my family missing them more then words are actually not alone or crazy. thank you |
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9 AnonNCM
alleykatt74@hotmail.com
Location: Nowhere
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| Sunday 11/15/2009 04:05:44 CST |
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| I have been a NCM for 12 years. It has been hell. There is no one out there that will listen to you. People call you crazy when all you want is for someone to hear you. My daughter is 15 and PAS is real. |
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8 Lisha Bailey
lish0427@yahoo.com
Location: macomb county
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| Friday 10/09/2009 16:57:06 CDT |
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| Children need both parents. Parental Alienation is a form of domestic violence! Parental rights need to be protected from abuse of power. Chlidren have the right to know the truth. |
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7 ShariAndreeLies
grangergirl2@yahoo.com
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| Tuesday 09/22/2009 09:59:44 CDT |
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| Ok, I know that you all are thanking my "mother" for sharing her "alienation" story, but the story is just that A STORY. Most of it is just plain lies. I am her daughter and I can tell you that the main reason she hasn't seen us children is her own stupid self. And I'm sure in her little rant about how unfair her life is, she didn't mention that she's way behind in child support. She thinks it's all right to pay only $250 a month when in reality she's supposed to be paying over twice that a week. What a load of bologna. If you want to go on believing her fine, but let me tell you that you are falling for a load of crap. |
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6 Shari Andree
saa4kids@yahoo.com
http://www.saa4kids.com
Location: MI
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| Saturday 08/22/2009 11:09:46 CDT |
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NOTHING justifies the minimization or removal
of a fit and loving parent from a child's life
NOTHING
Up until a little over 3 years ago, I was the primary care-giver of these children ever since they were born and the separation has been devastating beyond description. When my case was started over 3 years ago...I knew it would take time and I was told by my first attorney to be patient. Back in 5/06, Larry Andree forced me out of the home by getting a PPO issued against me and he further used this PPO to keep me away from the children and our home. At that time, Larry Andree had taken our children to his parent's condominium and left me in the home.
Three weeks later, Mr. Andree went back into our home while I was out. When I returned, he refused to let me in and stated he had a PPO against me. John Foley, (the children's GAL) stated in his report, "he believed my statement to be true that there was no doubt that the children told this court whatever their father had told them to say in order to place the PPO in place against me." Yes...I was forced out of the home and I was told by my first attorney there was nothing I could do about the PPO and to be patient. I did not abandon those children and I did not leave the home of my own accord. I lived in fear of Larry Andree and his PPO.
When Larry Andree kept alienating, harassing, intimidating, manipulating, and obstructing any way of seeing our children over these past 3 years...again, I told myself to be patient. As more time went by and our children were subjected to more verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and brain washing... I told myself that the system will see it now and step in to stop the abuse of the children. I truly believe that not only has Mr. Andree been able to abuse myself and our children, he has also been able to manipulate, control, and abuse the court and it's system for his own abusive needs.
There are no gray areas where my case is involved. This is a case that screams of domestic violence. Domestic violence is not just about physical violence, but it also encompasses the verbal and emotional abuse. The verbal and emotional abuse carries deep scars that cannot be seen, but are carried inside for a life time. The undisputed fact is the greatest harm that is inflicted through these decisions is heaped on the shoulders of the children involved. These decisions have left invisible and permanent wounds that my children will carry with them for the rest of their lives.
I was told a while ago to not let emotion interfere with the process and to just be patient. I have to say those 4 precious children are all about emotion. I have documentation which shows that I am a very caring, loving, and capable mother who misses her children very much. No mother should have to go through the nightmare that I am enduring each and every day.
There are truly no words to describe the emotional pain, abandonment, and confusion my children have gone through from being separated from their mother. There is no doubt that they will carry with them the life-long baggage from the blatant abuse from their father.
As I've said before....NOTHING justifies the minimization
or removal of a fit and loving parent from a child's life. NOTHING. |
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5 Cindy
csmith3762@aol.com
Location: Niles, MI
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| Saturday 08/15/2009 00:05:04 CDT |
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| Thanks for representing the side of parental alienation that is rarely talked about. I have two teenage daughters that left Michigan two years ago to live with their father in another state. I grieve every day and I live with the pain of a broken heart of a mother. I did not deserve this. |
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4 Evanlee Perth
parentingabusedkids@excite.com
http://parentingabusedkids.wordpress.com
Location: Midwest
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| Tuesday 08/11/2009 18:19:41 CDT |
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Thank-you for giving voice, and offering support to all the mothers who are separated from their children. This page is an invaluable source of hope and support.
My ex husband abused me for many years. I finally left after he attacked me physically, and threw the children and I out of the home. We were homeless for 2 years, and while he stayed in the family home we struggled finding affordable housing and living in the lowest level of poverty.
I was naiive to think the Courts would protect us. Instead, I lost all rights to my children and I was told to keep silent about abuse. I was told I was "alienating" my children from their father and the Court thought it was wrong for me to be afraid. I have been through the worst possible form of emotional and mental abuse first by my husband and then by the Court. I have lost all my privacy--my husband even has access to my medical records including the court ordered therapy (the court is trying to convince me I am not abused). And I have no money to get the help I need to fight for my children. Whenever I voice my concerns, I am punished. I lost my children this way.
My children were taken from me forcibly by a court that has violated my rights in every sense of the word. The grief I experience never goes away. I still check their beds at night, and and say their prayers, though they are not there. When I go to the store, I am drawn to the children's section and cry because everything reminds me of them. And worse, I have to face the courts have put my children in an unsafe situation while punishing me for trying to protect them. Just to know I am not alone has kept me going. Just to know I don't fight alone, has kept my spirit strong.
My prayers are with you all. |
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3 Nathalie Kretzmann
parentingonline@yahoo.com
http://www.ParentingOnline.org/moodle
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| Friday 07/31/2009 12:04:50 CDT |
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| I am offering 1 free Online Parenting Class to the first person who responds, mentioning Moms of Michigan. Get some encouragement and learn simple, respectful discipline techniques. Raising children can be fun! |
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2 Deanna Kloostra
secretary@abusedswan.com
http://www.abusedswan.com
Location: Grand Rapids MI
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| Sunday 07/26/2009 14:24:47 CDT |
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| Don't forget October 28th is Non Custodial Mothers Day! In October I will have special candy made for Non Custodial Mothers. Please email me so I can put you on my email list for events etc... I am doing. Have serveral thing in the works. |
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1 Sister Julia Moreno
joshuarosefoundation@gmail.com
http://joshuarosefoundation.blogspot.com
Location: CA
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| Wednesday 05/13/2009 10:25:55 CDT |
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| I was doing research on the web for more resources to help parents and came across this site. I think whoever did this site has done a wonderful job. They obviously have a grasp of what the non-custodial moms from all walks of life go thru. If Joshua Rose Foundation can be of any assistance in further promoting this wonderful group, and your efforts, please feel free to contact us at 760-252-8659. I know we will certainly be listing you as a valuable resource for any moms who are in your area. Keep up the great work. |
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